Praise God, there have been many
accomplishments in my life because of
the Lord Jesus Christ. I'll begin by telling all that has went wrong
and how these accomplishes came about.
I was a senior in high school when I became pregnant. So, I got married
at the age of eighteen. My husband told me he didn't want me going back
to high school, so I dropped out. I was married to this man for seven
years. He was very abusive, physically and mentally. He was also an
alcoholic. After seven years, I couldn't take the abuse anymore, so I
divorced him and my son and I moved into town.
I then turned to alcohol as my best friend. I lost several good jobs
and lived in several different places. I used all the money for alcohol
and couldn't pay the bills or rent. I ended up in jail four times one
for DUI and the other three was for driving without a license. I still
didn't learn anything by going to jail. The judge even sent me to AA
meetings and counseling, but I did not want to stop. I guess I can say,
inside I did, but I didn't want to lose everything. (Friends, Fun, and
whatever else).
When my son turned seventeen, he decided he wanted to go to work with
his father. I was really glad, cause that left more money for me to
drink on. I found this little hole in the wall, motel room and it didn't
cost me much to rent it. I was just glad I didn't have to worry about
him anymore.
Eleven years went by like this and then I ended up pregnant with a one
night stand. I couldn't believe this was happening, I had been on the
pill for seventeen years. I knew one thing, I couldn't take care of
myself let alone a baby. I then made arrangements for an abortion. But
then something happened, I had people coming from everywhere telling me
that I shouldn't get the abortion. Some of these people I had never
seen before, they were people from my sister's church. They continued
to say that they would be praying for me and that I make the
right decision.
Well, I didn't want any part of this GOD stuff. I felt that there was
no GOD and if there was, then why did he do this to me? Then, one Sunday
morning, I decided to go to church. In April of 1996, I asked into my
life. In August of 1996, I gave birth to another baby boy. His name is
Macaleb, we call him Mac for short. But I call him my little angel sent
by GOD. This little boy and GOD has changed my whole life. I have come
a long way.
I will have been sober for five years in March of 2001. In February of
1999, I finally got my drivers license back after losing them for ten
years. Also in February, I received my G.E.D. I am working on getting
my financial situations straightened out and BEST of all, I am in my
fifth quarter at Central Ohio Technical College. I owe all my life to
the GOOD LORD above. I am now forty years old. And enjoy the
Lord Jesus Christ. Thank You Jesus!!!
Sincerely,
Ronda Stephens
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